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婚輔信息：付出愛 (Giving Love) 2022-08-28

付出愛 (Giving Love)
作者：蓋瑞巧門 (Gary Chapman)

愛弟兄，要彼此親熱；恭敬人，要彼此推讓。(羅馬書十二章10節)

對浪漫愛情的渴望，深深根植於我們的內心中，這使得幾乎所有的雜誌上，都至少有一篇，使愛情常保活力的文章。那麼爲何，在婚禮之後，好像只有少數夫妻，找到那永久愛情的祕訣呢？我確信原因是，我們專注於「得到愛」，而不是「付出愛」。

只要你一直把焦點，放在配偶應該爲你做什麼上，就容易變成指責和批評。換個方法如何？試著說：「我能夠幫你什麼忙？我如何讓你過得更輕鬆？我怎樣當一個更好的配偶？」在羅馬書十二章，保羅寫到，若我們彼此相愛，應該恭敬人，要彼此推讓。對所愛的人付出，不該成爲令人討厭的工作；如果我們的愛是真誠的，那麼付出與服事，將會是一種喜樂；付出愛將使你們的關係，保持活力。

父啊，今日請幫助我，專注於付出愛；讓我把焦點，少放一點在配偶能夠給我什麼上，多放一點在我能給他（她）什麼上；我因著祢那無私、付出愛的終極榜樣，而感謝、讚美祢。

Marriage Devotional: Giving Love
Author: Gary Chapman

Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other. (Romans 12:10)

The desire for romantic love is deeply rooted in our psychological makeup. Almost every popular magazine has at least one article on keeping love alive. So why is it that so few couples seem to have found the secret to a lasting love after the wedding? I‵m convinced it‵s because we concentrate on "getting love" rather than "giving love."

As long as you focus on what your spouse should be doing for you, you‵ll come across as condemning and critical. How about a different approaching that says, "What can I do to help you? How can I make your life easier? How can I be a better spouse?" In Romans 12, Paul writes that when we love each other, we should "take delight in honoring each other." Giving to the one we love does not have to be a chore; if our affection is genuine, giving and serving can be a joy. Giving love will keep your relationship alive.

Father, help me to concentrate on giving love today. May l focus less on what my spouse can give me, and more on what I can give to him or her. Thanks for being the ultimate example of selfless, giving love.